7 Signs You’re Dating Potential Instead of Reality
-You talk more about who he could become than who he is.
-You’re waiting for him to be ready.
-You explain away behavior that hurts you.
-You keep thinking the timing is the problem.
-His words keep you hopeful, but his actions don’t change.
-You’re investing based on promises instead of patterns.
-You love the future you imagine more than the relationship you actually have.
Don’t date the possibility. Date who he is today.
Donna Lucarini-Sims
As someone who has settled for less than the love and partnership I truly wanted, I know how lonely that can feel. I now coach women to stop settling for less than what they want in love and start experiencing real connection where they are seen, heard, valued, and prioritized.