Congrats! The archetype that drives your Love Setpoint is the
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ACHIEVER,
“Over-Doer”Â
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You’ve built success everywhere… except in love.
Also known as Athena the Greek goddess of wisdom, strategy, and intellect. She symbolizes strength, planning, and achievement — but also the need to soften and receive.
You’re a powerhouse... smart, capable, and determined. But when it comes to relationships, your drive to achieve can sometimes lead to patterns where you overwork, overthink, and over-give.
What This Means About You
You’re the woman who makes things happen. You know how to set a goal and crush it, in your career, your family, and your personal growth.
But in relationships, this strength can become your stumbling block. When love feels uncertain, you lean into control. You do the planning, the giving, the fixing… and often end up carrying the emotional weight.
The challenge… That energy unintentionally attracts men who give less, or who feel safe letting you “handle it all.”
This isn’t a flaw, it’s a pattern, and patterns can be rewritten.
Why You Attract Who You Attract
- You’re drawn to emotionally unavailable men because they let you do the work you’re comfortable doing.
- You equate love with effort and when it feels effortless, you second-guess it.
- You tend to give more than you receive, thinking it’ll earn love but it leaves you depleted.
Your subconscious Love Setpoint says, “If I do enough, I’ll be chosen.”
But real, aligned love doesn’t need to be earned. It flows from self-worth not over-effort.
The Deeper Connection You Crave
You’re not here for surface-level attraction — you want a partner who:
- Meets you emotionally, spiritually, and sexually
- Creates safety where you can soften and receive
- Supports your goals without making you carry the entire relationship
- Chooses you, effortlessly, no convincing, no chasing
The good news? That kind of love starts with shifting your Love Setpoint, and that’s where your next steps come in.
Your Empowered Next Steps
You don’t have to keep repeating old cycles. Start shifting your Love SetPoint by choosing partners who meet your energy, not drain it. And learning to receive without losing your power.
I’ve created a proven system that blends psychology, modern medicine, spirituality, sexual wellness, and coaching to help women just like you break free from old patterns and finally create the deep, connected love they desire.
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xoxo,
Donna